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First Steps

Wondering how to make your dating app profile stand out? Start here with our top 5 tips that actually work. Check out our top five tips that can make all the difference.

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Mel W & Co's Tips

Profile Bio Tips

Fill out as much as you can.
Be honest about your height.
Be honest about your age.
Be honest about what you are seeking.
Be honest about your smoking and drinking status.

Profile Pic Tips

Photos should look like you.
No blurry pics.
Avoid too many group shots.
Keep up the variety.
Most people laugh at fishing pics than desire them.

Profile Content Tips

The app's prompted questions are a good ice breaker - use them!
Keep it positive!
Don't write about what you are not looking for.
No need for essays.
Avoid writing about how your kids are number one and no one can compete - not necessary.

First Message Tips

Keep it light and positive.
If you use a template - keep it short.
Sending a long first message about your life - looks desperate.
Just 'Hey' looks annoying and hard work.
Never mention exes.

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